👑 BANNED FROM THE BALL: SARAH LAHBATI ‘ESCORTED OUT’ OF BGC HOTSPOT—WAS IT A PUBLIC SHAMING OVER A ‘STOLEN’ BILLIONAIRE? THE BIZARRE TRUTH BEHIND THE MEDUSA BAR MELTDOWN! 🚨

THE NIGHT THE MUSIC STOPPED: SHAME AT THE AFTER-PARTY
The Tatler Philippines Ball is the pinnacle of high society, a glittering nexus where power, wealth, and celebrity collide. But for actress and former society wife Sarah Lahbati, the after-party became a stage for a humiliating, public spectacle that is now tearing through the upper echelons of the Alta World.
The location: Medusa Bar in BGC, the chosen spot for the post-Ball revelry.
The allegation: Sarah Lahbati was ordered to be escorted out of the bar, in front of a stunned crowd.
The story, which erupted on social media platforms and Reddit subreddits like Chica Philippines, reads like a scene from a scandalous society drama. The account claims that the atmosphere inside Medusa Bar shifted violently when Lahbati entered, following closely behind two of Manila’s most powerful social figures: Rocio Zobel and Marty Romualdez, the son of the former House Speaker.
The critical, devastating moment was allegedly orchestrated by Rocio Zobel. According to multiple sources, Zobel spoke quietly to her father, Iñigo Zobel, who then approached the bar staff. Moments later, the unimaginable happened: Sarah Lahbati was “calmly escorted” out of the venue by a staff member, in full view of the bewildered guests. A staff member reportedly confirmed the dramatic exit to bilyonaryo.com, noting that all eyes were on Lahbati as she was ushered out.
The burning question is not if the incident occurred, but WHY?
THE LOVE TRIANGLE ACCUSATION: THE BILLIONAIRE BATTLE
The silence from Sarah Lahbati—who has yet to issue an official statement on the Medusa Bar incident, only posting a cryptic, defiant “Judge me na lang. Tamad mag-explain” on Instagram—only fuels the most volatile piece of gossip: A venomous love triangle allegedly orchestrated the public shaming.
The internet has rapidly connected Lahbati’s bizarre expulsion to the tangled romantic history involving Rocio Zobel and Marty Romualdez.
Controversial social commentator Xian Gaza fanned the flames of suspicion, claiming that the prevailing rumor in the Alta World is that Sarah Lahbati “stole” Marty Romualdez from his “childhood sweetheart,” Rocio Zobel.
If true, the Medusa Bar incident was not a simple misunderstanding of venue capacity or decorum; it was a devastating act of social warfare. Rocio Zobel, a figure of immense influence in the most exclusive circles, allegedly used her family’s power and connections to issue a public, humiliating punishment—a move designed to enforce a rigid social code.
The sequence of events is too precise to be coincidence:
Lahbati is allegedly linked to Romualdez, who was previously linked to Zobel.
Lahbati enters the exclusive after-party with Romualdez and Zobel present.
Zobel signals to her father, a power broker.
Lahbati is publicly removed.
This narrative paints Lahbati as the outsider who dared to trespass on the territory of the elite, paying the ultimate price for her alleged transgression—a chilling echo of ancient, ruthless court politics played out on the modern BGC scene.
THE DOUBLE STANDARD: CRITICISM OF THE ELITE
While the gossip machine churns out accusations against Lahbati, a significant segment of the public and netizens has focused their outrage on the actions of the bar staff and the Zobel family.
The critics argue that the expulsion was inherently unfair.
“This is not fair. She had a brand with a reservation for her,” one source reportedly noted.
The controversy highlights the immense, almost feudal power held by Manila’s old-money elite. The Zobel family’s alleged ability to quietly command a commercial establishment to remove a legitimate, invited celebrity guest raises serious questions about class privilege and the suppression of fair conduct.
It suggests that no matter how famous or how well-connected one is, crossing the boundaries of the established Alta can result in immediate, public humiliation. Sarah Lahbati, a known figure with her own celebrity status, was reduced to a public spectacle—a dramatic illustration of who holds the real power in high society.
LAHATI’S DEFIANCE: THE MYSTERY OF ‘TAMAD MAG-EXPLAIN’

Sarah Lahbati’s silence on the Medusa Bar incident is both frustrating and profoundly compelling. Her Instagram response—”Judge me na lang. Tamad mag-explain”—is not an apology; it is an act of defiance.
This cryptic message could be interpreted in two dramatic ways:
Guilty Evasion: She is too tired, or too guilty, to explain her alleged involvement with Marty Romualdez, confirming the scandal but refusing to engage in the tedious back-and-forth.
Moral Superiority: She views her accusers as beneath her, seeing the entire affair as a petty, classist maneuver unworthy of her time or defense. She is telling the public to judge her on her character, not on the malicious gossip of the elite.
Until Lahbati or the Zobel/Romualdez camp breaks their silence, the Medusa Bar expulsion will remain one of the most explosive, enigmatic celebrity scandals of the year. It is a cautionary tale of a celebrity who, possibly through love or poor judgment, stepped into the invisible, dangerous battleground of the Alta World—a place where the weapons are not words, but public humiliation and social exile.
The actress must now grapple with the consequences, navigating a world that seems determined to punish her for daring to challenge the romantic claims of one of the Philippines’ most formidable social figures. The only thing more shocking than the expulsion is the raw, naked power that was displayed that night.