A new controversy surrounds the Tulfo family as veteran broadcast journalist Ben Tulfo has publicly criticized his nephew, Quezon City Second District Representative Ralph Tulfo, for an extravagant celebration in Las Vegas, Nevada. Known for his outspoken commentary on public issues, Ben Tulfo has consistently been unafraid to hold both government officials and private individuals accountable, regardless of political affiliation or family ties.

This time, the focus is on his own family. Over the past few days, social media has been buzzing with videos showing Congressman Ralph enjoying a luxurious party at Caesar’s Palace in Las Vegas with friends. The footage, which quickly went viral, shows him drinking from a bottle while companions looked on, alongside bills totaling $42,605 (around Php 2.47 million) and $73,951.64 (around Php 4.29 million). The extravagant spending drew immediate attention, prompting discussions about public officials’ accountability and the ethics of lavish lifestyles.

Ben Tulfo, who is widely respected for his candid and often fiery critiques, took the opportunity to address his nephew publicly. On the official YouTube page of his investigative show Bitag Live, he delivered a pointed message: “Congressman Ralph, listen carefully. I care about you and I’m concerned about your future. You have a bright path ahead. I am rebuking you publicly—not to shame you, but out of love.”

He stressed that his criticism was also meant to protect the family’s reputation. “It saddens me when some members of our family fail to uphold the honor associated with our surname. Others feel embarrassed by these actions,” he said. Ben further advised his nephew to learn from this mistake and act responsibly. “Look me in the eye and listen closely. Everyone makes mistakes, but we are given opportunities to improve. I know you’ve apologized publicly, but it must come with sincerity and accountability. Don’t follow corrupt politicians—adhere to principles and integrity, the path set by your uncle Bitag.”

Ben acknowledged that his statements might be perceived as harsh, but he emphasized the importance of family responsibility. “It pains me to see this, my heart bleeds over what has happened. But anyone who attempts to tarnish our family name will face consequences. I speak from observation; we are not identical even as siblings. Among the ten of us, one has passed, leaving nine to carry forward the family legacy. We are the first generation; I pray no further mistakes are repeated in the next generation.”

He also urged his siblings to monitor their children closely to prevent similar controversies. “Take care of your children; don’t let them bring shame to our family name. If I don’t intervene, you should know it’s serious. This is a firm instruction—period,” he said.

Congressman Ralph responded swiftly, clarifying that the gathering was a private event among friends to celebrate Christmas, New Year, and good news received by some attendees. He insisted that no public funds were used for the celebration. “Although I used my credit card to pay, all participants contributed to the total expenses. This was a personal trip, and no government money was spent. I deeply understand why Filipinos may feel uncomfortable seeing such celebrations, especially during times when public vigilance over government spending is high.”

Ralph added that the viral videos taught him a valuable lesson in caution and responsibility, particularly as he prepares for his upcoming marriage. “This serves as a reminder to be careful and thoughtful, especially as I begin a new chapter in my life, building my own family. I stand with the Filipino people in demanding accountability from public officials who misuse government funds. Let us not allow this incident to distract us from the real fight against corruption.”

This is not the first time Ralph Tulfo has attracted scrutiny. Earlier this year, he was cited for violating traffic rules, using an exclusive bus lane meant only for public utility buses, emergency vehicles, and government-marked vehicles responding to emergencies. He acknowledged his violation, paid the necessary fines, and completed the required seminar. Senator Raffy Tulfo, his father, reportedly reprimanded him and advised him to apologize for inconveniencing the public.

Ralph Tulfo, son of Senator Raffy Tulfo and Act CIS Party-list Representative Joselyn Tulfo, has had a mixed public perception. While he has been active in legislative work, promoting initiatives in education, public safety, and workplace reforms, incidents like the Las Vegas party and the traffic violation have drawn significant criticism and raised questions about the responsibility of public officials.

Ben Tulfo, however, emphasized that his public rebuke stems from concern for his nephew’s future, rather than a desire to shame him. “I am speaking out because I want to save the reputation of other family members who carry our surname with integrity, honor, and respect,” he said. His firm stance also serves as a warning to public figures that their personal conduct reflects not only on themselves but on their families and constituencies.

The viral video has sparked debates online, with netizens expressing disappointment and concern over the lavish spending by an elected official. Many argued that public figures must act with prudence and responsibility, especially when their actions are closely scrutinized. Others pointed out that personal accountability, transparency, and integrity are non-negotiable traits for politicians.

As of this writing, there have been no additional statements from Ralph Tulfo’s parents, other uncles, or himself beyond the initial apology and clarification. Meanwhile, public attention remains focused on the implications of this incident for the Tulfo family’s public image and the responsibilities of those in political office.

The episode highlights the delicate balance between private indulgence and public responsibility. For public figures, especially those from influential families, personal choices can carry significant consequences for reputation, legacy, and public trust. Ben Tulfo’s public rebuke serves as a cautionary tale: the privileges of family legacy and public office come with heightened expectations for accountability, integrity, and principled conduct

Sa kabila ng mga pahayag ng Quezon City 2nd District Representative na si Ralph Tulfo na ang ginastos nilang ₱6.7 milyon sa isang pribadong pagdiriwang sa Las Vegas noong Disyembre 2023 ay mula sa kanilang sariling pera, patuloy na umaabot ang isyu sa mga awtoridad. Ayon sa mga ulat, ang insidente ay kasalukuyang iniimbestigahan ng mga ahensya ng gobyerno upang matukoy kung may mga paglabag sa mga regulasyon o batas na may kinalaman sa paggamit ng pondo at mga posibleng isyu ng hindi tamang paggasta. Habang wala pang opisyal na pahayag mula sa mga awtoridad, ang patuloy na imbestigasyon ay nagpapakita ng seryosong pagtingin sa insidente.

Ang isyung ito ay nagdulot ng mga tanong at pangamba sa publiko hinggil sa tamang paggamit ng mga pondo at ang responsibilidad ng mga halal na opisyal sa kanilang mga aksyon. Ang mga ahensya ng gobyerno ay patuloy na nagsasagawa ng mga hakbang upang tiyakin ang integridad at pananagutan sa mga pampublikong opisyal, at ang kasalukuyang imbestigasyon ay isang hakbang patungo sa pagtiyak ng tamang pamamahala at pag-iwas sa mga posibleng paglabag.

Sa kabila ng mga paliwanag ni Rep. Ralph Tulfo na ang ginastos nilang halaga ay mula sa kanilang sariling pera at hindi mula sa pondo ng gobyerno, ang patuloy na imbestigasyon ay nagpapakita ng pangangailangan para sa masusing pagsusuri at pagtiyak ng transparency at accountability sa mga aksyon ng mga pampublikong opisyal.