Kathryn Bernardo Speaks Out: No Plans to Invite Daniel Padilla to Her Wedding with Mayor Mark Alcala
After a long period of silence and conscious avoidance of public speculation, Kapamilya actress Kathryn Bernardo has finally addressed one of the most talked-about questions among her fans: Will she invite her ex-boyfriend Daniel Padilla to her upcoming wedding with Mayor Mark Alcala?
In a direct and firm response, Kathryn made it clearâthere are no plans to invite Daniel. According to her, this decision wasnât made on impulse but rather after deep reflection and a sincere desire to protect the peace, intimacy, and joy of her most important day.
“He’s Part of My Past”
Kathryn explained that she sees no reason to include someone who now belongs to a closed chapter of her life. âThereâs no point in looking back at a part of my life that Iâve already moved on from,â she said candidly.
While many fans still hold onto the hope of a possible reconciliation or even just a cordial encounter between the former love team âKathNiel,â Kathryn dismissed the idea, saying that a wedding is not the right time nor place for reunions or nostalgic moments. In fact, she believes it could bring unnecessary emotional tensionânot just for her but also for her fiancĂ©, Mayor Mark Alcala, and everyone else attending the event.
âA wedding isnât a scene from a teleserye,â Kathryn said. âItâs a sacred ceremony that marks a new beginningânot a moment to revisit the past.â
Respecting the Present Over Glorifying the Past
She emphasized that itâs important for everyone, especially her supporters, to respect her current happiness. âI understand why some people are still attached to the idea of KathNiel,â she said. âWe were a big part of each otherâs lives and careers. But that chapter has long endedânot out of anger, but because I needed to protect myself and focus on my present.â
Kathryn acknowledged the many beautiful memories she shared with Daniel, but like every story, she believes theirs came to its natural end. For her, the conclusion of their relationship wasnât about bitterness, but liberationâa necessary step to fully embrace the person she has become.
She also clarified that her upcoming marriage is not about proving anything to Daniel or anyone from her past. âIâm not getting married to show that Iâve moved on or that Iâm happier now. Iâm doing this because this is the direction my life is meant to takeâwith someone who gives me the love, respect, and security I didnât feel before.â
Kathryn described her relationship with Mayor Alcala as quiet, stable, and realâunlike the public, high-pressure romance she once had. âWith Mark, love is not about putting on a show. Itâs calm. Itâs consistent. Itâs true.â
âDonât Ask Me That Againâ
Kathryn admitted she finds it funnyâand sometimes annoyingâhow people still ask the same question: âWill you invite Daniel to your wedding?â
She said the answer has always been no, and it doesnât need to be repeated. âQuestions like that only exist to stir up drama that no longer has relevance in my life,â she said. âI hope people stop digging into stories that have long been buried.â
Kathryn shared that she no longer lives in the past, and the people who are no longer part of her present donât deserve space in her most meaningful moments. âIâve learned to separate myself from people who are no longer involved in my life. Thatâs part of my healing. Thatâs part of my freedom.â
What If Daniel Marries First?
When asked how she would feel if Daniel were to get married first and not invite her to his wedding, Kathrynâs response was calm and composed: âI wouldnât care.â
She explained that she has no interest in what Daniel is doing now, nor would she expect an invitation. And even if she were invited, she said she wouldnât goânot out of resentment, but because she believes she no longer has any connection or obligation to attend such events.
âIâm no longer the Kathryn who constantly adjusts to othersâ emotions,â she declared. âI am now the Kathryn who knows her worth and no longer forces herself into spaces where sheâs no longer needed.â
A New Chapter, A New Life
Today, Kathryn chooses a life of quiet joy and mutual respect with her fiancĂ©. After everything she has been throughâboth in showbiz and her personal lifeâshe says she now values peace over popularity, authentic love over public validation, and clarity over confusion.
With Mayor Mark Alcala, Kathryn says she has found the kind of love that doesnât need to be flaunted online. âItâs not loud. Itâs not showy. But itâs real, honest, and unwavering.â
For Kathryn, her wedding isnât just a ceremonyâitâs a symbol of rebirth, a new chapter that she is writing for herself. This time, she is the author. She chooses who stays and who gets left behind in the previous pages of her story.
A Message to Her Fans
To her fans, especially those still clinging to KathNiel, Kathryn had this to say: âThe most genuine love doesnât always roar. It doesnât always post. It doesnât need to be publicized to be valid. True love is quiet. It is steady. It is real. And most importantlyâit belongs in the present, not in the past.â
Kathryn Bernardo is no longer the girl caught in the fairytale of yesterday. She is a woman who faced pain, accepted loss, and stood back up with strength and grace. And now, she enters a new journey, not as someone defined by an old love team, but as someone defined by self-worth, courage, and peace.