Manila, Philippines – Veteran comedienne and host Aiai delas Alas has made a shocking and candid admission regarding her divorce from her former husband, Gerald Sibayan. Speaking frankly about the painful aftermath of their separation, the actress revealed she took extraordinary steps to retaliate against the man she says betrayed and used her: she successfully moved to revoke his U.S. permanent resident status (Green Card) petition.

The confirmation came during an interview on Fast Talk with Boy Abunda on October 30, where Aiai confessed to the decisive action concerning Gerald’s immigration status.

The Rationale: Choosing Retaliation Over Sanctity

Aiai delas Alas admitted that revoking the Green Card petition was not a decision she took lightly. Initially, she was hesitant to take such a drastic measure. However, she ultimately chose to pursue the revocation, driven by a deep sense of hurt and the feeling of having been taken advantage of.

“At first, I really didn’t want to do it,” Aiai confessed during the interview. “But later, I realized that I didn’t want to be a ‘saint’ or something. That will just be my personal revenge, because I was hurt.”

She made it clear that the move was her only form of justice and a way to balance the scales against the deception and alleged opportunism she experienced in the relationship. By choosing to revoke the Green Card, which was granted through her successful petition for Alien Relative, Aiai ensured that Gerald would lose the opportunity to become a permanent resident of the United States.

Divorce and Moving On: The Quest for Peace

Aiai disclosed that the revocation of Gerald’s Green Card was processed alongside their divorce proceedings. However, she candidly admitted that while the Green Card issue is settled, the divorce itself is still in the process and has not yet been finalized.

Despite the ongoing legal paperwork, the celebrated comedian assured the public that she is now in a “moving stage” and has regained her “peace of mind.” She is focused on self-care and healing after the trauma of the breakup.

The pain from past relationships, particularly the most recent one, appears to have deeply affected her outlook on marriage. Aiai stated firmly that she has no intention of marrying again, opting instead to focus entirely on herself. This decision likely stems from a pattern she has identified in her romantic history, where she believes many of the men she loved may have simply used her. This realization has hardened her resolve to prioritize her own well-being moving forward.

Third Party Confirmation and Unwavering Resolve

It can be recalled that Aiai delas Alas first filed to withdraw the Petition for Alien Relative for Gerald Sibayan back in March of the previous year.

One of the primary and non-negotiable reasons Aiai cited for withdrawing the petition was Gerald’s alleged infidelity. She first hinted at the existence of a “cheater” and a Filipino mistress back in January, cementing the public’s understanding that the relationship breakdown was caused by betrayal.

Given the severity of the infidelity and the subsequent emotional distress, Aiai declared that she has absolutely no regrets about her decision to revoke the Green Card. For her, it remains a justified form of retribution for the profound hurt and deceit she endured.

The story serves as a cautionary tale in the often-intertwined worlds of love, marriage, and immigration status, especially when one partner is a celebrity with the means to facilitate a permanent move abroad.